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Tuesday 25 September 2012

Just Keep The Change

Just Keep The Change


Are You Making This Common Mistake When Trying to Get Your Ex Back?

Posted: 24 Sep 2012 05:25 AM PDT

Get your ex-girlfriend back the stress-free way

Have you ever been in this situation: You want your ex to “forgive everything” and “take you back”, all at once?…

If you have, this little nugget of wisdom may prove to be a huge “Aha!” moment.

Going too far, too fast

What I see all the time is both guys and girls trying to get back together with their ex’s – and in that itself, I don’t see a problem. The problem only arises when these guys and girls try to get too far too fast.

See, often they try to get their ex to “give them a new chance” or “to patch everything up” ALL AT ONCE…

When in fact they should take much smaller steps instead.

Getting back together is big business for both of you, and depending on the break-up, it might not be easy. But it does not have to be difficult, either.

You just have to be patient!

Even though you feel ready, you can’t take for granted that your ex feels the same way.

You have to give him or her time and YOU HAVE TO take baby steps to get to where you want to go!

So instead of taking that huge talk of moving back in the apartment and going to back square one or wherever you left off, why don’t you just go for a walk instead and talk about the things that you used to talk about?

Don’t make it feel forced

You don’t have to act like you’re still a couple in the sense of touch and romance, but keep the same tone and level of banter that you used to.

The gist of getting your ex back as I see it is to act like you’re still in a relationship… Without ever mentioning that you’re acting this way or talking about the fact that you’re actually not together anymore.

Make the relationship feel real

Only when the “relationship” feels real in your ex’s head again can you begin to talk more openly about “getting back together”… Because only then will it feel natural and not forced…

So instead of getting back together, why don’t you grab a coffee with her? With no strings attached. The less it feels like a “proper date”, the better. Think more about it like two friends getting together talking about everything and nothing – like friends usually do. “Fun” and “without stress” are the keywords here.

Let her come to you

Let her come to you instead of chasing her. Take it slow and take it one step at a time. Only then will you succeed as well as plant the seed for the relationship to flourish in the future.

This is only a teaser of what I have of tips and tricks for you to get back together with your ex. Let me know in the comments what you think!

Monday 24 September 2012

Are You Fall-ing For It?

 
Are You Fall-ing For It?

Fall officially arrived last Saturday. Here in Southern California, the season brings shorter days and slightly cooler temperatures but no dramatic change. To create the illusion of a Midwestern autumn, I exchanged the beach-themed covers on my sofa pillows for covers with Halloween themes, replaced the seashells in my “exhibit” lamp with pinecones, acorns and seed pods, and arranged gourds and squash on the mantle. I’m going back to my home in Missouri for my son’s wedding in a couple weeks. Like many of you, I’ll need to clean the gutters, winterize the outside faucets, check the weatherstripping on the doors and windows, reverse the ceiling fans and change the batteries in the smoke detectors. Hmmm. Maybe I should stay an extra day? -Jerri Farris

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Tuesday 18 September 2012

Fall Fashion Focus: Runway Beauty, Men's Boots and More

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Real Runway Beauty: Get the Looks at Home

Real Runway Beauty: Get the Looks at Home

Fashion week is always a breeding ground for fresh beauty trends, but translating the looks from the runway to every day can seem like a daunting task. From cobalt eyeliner to emerald smoky eyes, the backstage pros took more risks this season, resulting in bold and versatile trends. Depending on the occasion, the time of day or your mood, you can amp up or tone down the look to make it work for you. Find out which ten fall trends we think are the most wearable and how to recreate them at home--no professional makeup artist skills required. —Megan Beauchamp

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Wednesday 12 September 2012

35 Tips to Celebrate Healthy Aging Month

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Stay Active, Stay Young

Stay Active, Stay Young

September is Healthy Aging Month, a time to think about ways we can implement positive changes to impact the future. It sounds intimidating, but it's not about making giant lifestyle adjustments. Simple substitutions and additions to your normal routine could end up making a big difference! I just started walking to work (like really, just started—as in yesterday); it's a built-in time for exercise that will save me money on gas and will leave me feeling a bit more sane (goodbye, Los Angeles traffic!). From cooking with fresher ingredients to trying out a new sport to wearing sunscreen every day, there are tons of ways to help the future you! --Rachel Horn

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