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Wednesday 29 September 2010

Stop A Breakup If There's Still Love

By Jenny Lewinger

People get into relationships because they love and they leave it for so many reasons. Relationship breakups are normal everywhere and people experience them everyday. Losing an important person from one's life is not an easy thing. Breakups are painful and sad that is why it must be stopped. There are many ways to stop a breakup to save the love in a relationship.

Stopping a breakup from happening requires much effort from the couple. In no one tries to do something to fix things, it will all fall apart. Nothing will happen if one will not resign to make the first move. Working things out in a troubled relationship requires humility and sacrifice.

If you find yourself on the verge of a relationship breakup, do something! Do not wait for your partner to do something because they might not do anything. Save the love that is still there and make effort to show it. You can arrange for a date with your partner to talk about things.

The reason for asking a colloquy is because communication is essential. You need to determine problems and issues in the relationship so you can make solutions. Ask your partner what's bothering them (if you notice it) and listen to them. Start working out on conflicts and anger before everything will be too late.

Once you have initiated communication, do not forget to show actions of love. Show your partner that you still feel the love and you want to save it. Show loving gestures to prove that you are making up for the relationship losses. Both you and your partner should acknowledge your mistakes and be sorry for it. Be honest with what you feel and fulfill your promises if you've given any.

Trust remains in a relationship that is built with pure honesty. Nurture this by understanding your partner and believing what they say. Have faith in them despite their imperfections because you too are an imperfect being. Listen to what you have to say to each other. Bear in mind that problems are tests and they do not last long.

Immense pride will not do any good to relationships and can only hurt feelings more. Refusal to discuss problems in a relationship will not solve anything. Humility is very important in a relationship. One should have the courage to step down, admit mistakes and ask for forgiveness. Arrogance will only make things worse and will bring the relationship to an end.

To make your relationship last, you need no expert to teach you. You just need to be conscious on everything that is happening around the relationship. Ensure that you made your partner understood the limits of your relationship. Tell them your expectations if you have any and tell them what you can give. You should be patient, understanding and honest with the one you love.

So before everything is too late, stop a breakup. Do not allow the gap to increase and create a distance between relationships. Act early before the fire of love die down. Always remember that when you love, you commit yourself to accepting the person wholly.

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