THE WIKI COMMUNITY

WIKI COMMUNITY

Wednesday 10 August 2011

People in the Limelight

People in the Limelight

Staying close to your partner while you are so far away

Posted: 10 Aug 2011 01:45 PM PDT



     After one year of dating Richard, Janet knew he was the man for her. They had laughed ,cried,suffered,and struggled together.
      She knew she had the best moments of her life with him,but her world came crumbling when Richard told her on one of their frequent dates that he has been transferred to the international branch of the company in Australia.

   He is expected to leave in the next four days.Richard was worried,sad and distressed. Janet was speechless,staring into each other's eyes,they wondered if they could really live without seeing each other,memories of her laughter,play came back into Richard's mind.

     Janet remembered his jokes,their little fights,memories of holding hands and walking together in his garden brought tears to her eyes. Nigeria to Australia,that's quite a distance ,she wondered .
It was certain they were both in love with each other,the only option left in order to still have a place in each other's lives is a Long distance relationship(LDR).Whether it will work or not,they were not certain,but they decided to give it a try.

      Just like Janet and Richard,a lot of lovers and married couples have found themselves in this situation.I have often heard people say LDR is a waste of time,the partners end up cheating on each other,some people even ask'' how can you keep on loving someone you don't see everyday ''?So,does long distance relationship really work or is it just a waste of time like most people presume.I say a big YES to that,LDR really does work.
        
         I have seen it work,I have heard sweet love stories about couples that scaled through a LDR .Just like every other relationship or marriage,like they say no marriage is made in heaven,all relationship requires a lot of efforts to make it work .
    Long distance relationship can be tough,but sometimes works out beautifully. Here are some tips on how to make a LDR work:

BE TRUE TO YOURSELF; There's no point having a long distance relationship with a partner that even when he/she is with you cheats on you.If you live in the same city with a guy or lady that lies to you about his/her whereabouts,not straightforward,or you notice a bit of insincerity.please,if the person is relocating to a new domain,break off any form of relationship,because if you continue dating such a partner when they are away,you will end up getting hurt,disappointed and frustrated.
if a person is not worth it,faithful,truthful,and honest.Don't think distance will make them a better partner to you.Long distance relationship only works out beautifully for faithful and truthful partners.

EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION AND TRUST;Use the power of modern technology,use your phone and internet to communicate with each other.Talk to each other via web cams,share your worries,fears,troubles with each other. Tell each other about your little triumphs and tragedies.
   I believe communication plays a very crucial role in a relationship.Learn to trust each other to avoid doubts and worries,update each other about your day to day activities.

SPEND TIME TOGETHER; inspite of the distance,I believe the partners can still have "special date'',probably on weekends, on such occasion,both parties could prepare the same meal in their different locations.
     At a fixed time,each partner looking good,with a webcam can have a exciting and interesting date,without any distraction,or interference,if possible all phones switched off,remember you mean so much to each other.Also,you could pray together,watch a movie together,listen to a programme ,and when the movie is over ,call each other to discuss it.

BUILD A BOUNDARY WITH THE OPPOSITE SEX;It's healthy and rewarding to have a good relationship with the opposite sex,but there shouldn't be any form of excessive closeness with anyone if you really want your LDR to last.As a guy,you shouldn't encourage a female friend to do your laundries,cook your meals,do your shopping and all that. 

    A lady should not encourage a male friend to take her out all the time,spend long hours on phone,or chatting or friendly dates. I strongly believe when you spend so much time with someone,you tend to like them,or when someone starts meeting some of your needs{footing your bills,cooking for you, washing your dishes},you unconsciously start falling in love with them,even if you don't intend to,or better still you will want to reward them by dating them.The Level of your closeness to a male or female friend, will either make you closer to or drift away from your partner.Too much closeness,may make you drift away from partners and finally take you away from them.

    HONESTY: Both partners should be honest in their communication,in expressing their anger and worries.And if you find yourself falling in love with someone else,be sincere with your partner by letting him or her know.
Remember,fights are a part of any relationship,and it's up to you to deal with it or succumb to it. 
          Your long distance relationship can work if you put the time and effort into making it work.If You are in love with somebody,You will swim the stream,You will climb the mountain,You will slay the dragon!!!

LIVE YOUR LIFE: One of the keys to surviving a long-distance relationship is to make sure you maintain your life, friendships and interests when your partner is away. "Many people in long-distance relationships have their whole lives wrapped up in their partner, which leaves them terribly depressed when the partner leaves, "This dependency stunts your personal growth, which will later take its toll on your relationship. To ensure that you don't lose sight of your goals and your life, use your separation as an opportunity to focus on your career or schooling without distraction and take advantage of your time away from your partner to develop yourself. Being in a long-distance relationship actually offers a wonderful benefit that a close physical relationship does not.,You can both continue to grow and richen your lives independently of each other while still being in a partnership, If handled correctly, each partner can become much more productive and well-developed, and will have more to bring to the relationship in the end.


           Are you in a long distance relationship or have you ever been in one.If yes,did it work? What were your challenges.?What do you generally think about a long distance relationship?,share your opinion.Let's discuss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

New Movie Trailer;Final Destination 5

Posted: 10 Aug 2011 10:53 AM PDT



      Sypnosis 
      During a corporate retreat, Sam Lawton is struck by a terrifying vision when he begins to cross a suspension bridge.
      He acts in time to save his girlfriend Molly and several others from the terrifying collapse that ensues, but they are all still marked by Death, and Death will collect his due one way or another. In a situation where mere mortals are pitted against the most relentless predator in all of creation, the only defense is a good offense.


Starring ;Nicholas D'Agosto, Emma Bell and Arlen Escarpeta
Release date; August ,2011

Three Good Reasons

Video ;Entertainment weekly-P square Invasion album concert edit

Posted: 10 Aug 2011 08:29 AM PDT


     Check out silverbird's entertainment weekly P square the invasion album concert edit . See the video below and enjoy

Official press release for the controversial new single between Terry G and Danny young

Posted: 10 Aug 2011 04:53 AM PDT



press release

         Following the controversy generated by the release of Terry G and Danny Young's new singles, Danny Young's management company has decided to issue an official statement to avoid unnecessary rumours and set the record straight.
     Danny Young and his crew are not happy that Terry G betrayed them by stealing the concept of their song.

     Danny Young's management explained that the song in dispute; Eli Jah was originally recorded by Danny Young as one of the songs billed to feature on his next album. His path and that of Rocksteady, another artiste signed to 2Face Idibia's Hypertek Records crossed at Elegushi Beach where 2Face Idibia and Danny Young headlined a particular show. Right there at Elegushi Beach, Danny Young and Rocksteady agreed to record a song together on Danny Young's next album. The day the song was supposed to be recorded, Danny Young put a call across to Rocksteady and he told Danny Young he was at Terry G's house located in the same neighborhood where Danny Young resides. Danny Young and his crew immediately left for Terry G's house with a copy of the song so that Rocksteady could listen.


      Danny Young's manager, K Lala stated that they met DJ Bombastic (a popular radio DJ with Rainbow FM in Lagos) and Sideone (an artiste) in Terry G's house. "We played the song and everybody there including Terry G fell in love with the song. They all prospected that the song would turn out to be a massive hit and Terry G admitted that he hadn't heard any song quite like it and indicated his interest to be featured on the song as well. We resolved to feature Terry G and Rocksteady on the song since we had previously considered the option of working with Terry G too. 


     Based on this deliberation, Terry G later requested for the data of the said song claiming that he wanted to add some baselines on the production. Everybody there including Sideone and DJ Bombasticadmitted that the beat was okay as produced by Danny Young but Terry G insisted that he had a different idea. In good faith, Danny sent the data to him to work on and also to record his own verse which was supposed to be the second verse. That was the last we heard of him before we travelled for some engagements in Dubai, Singapore and Kenya. He avoided our meeting before we travelled not knowing that he had another game plan".


     K Lala continued that while "we were still outside the country, people who had listened to the Song aside DJ Bombastic, Sideone and Rocksteady called us that Terry has released Danny Young's song and they were wondering if he actually gave it out or sold it to him. We decided not to do anything till we return to Nigeria. When we got to Nigeria, we immediately repackaged the song and release it with some punch lines against Terry G on the second verse which was supposed to be his verse on the track. The song was not actually supposed to be out now because we recorded it for the album. We were supposed to drop the singles we shot videos for on our trip. But because Terry G had already released the song, we didn't have any choice than to release ours and tell the whole world our story. We have witnesses and we are very happy with the way they have all come out so far to defend our claims. One of the artistes present at our meeting that day even warned us not to give the data to Terry G but we trusted him as a friend and a colleague not knowing that he is very mischievous".


      For now, Danny Young will not grant interviews nor talk about Terry G's betrayal till he is out with his fresh materials which will soon be released.  He will release new singles and videos which was his original plan to promote his next album. Danny Young's manager, K Lala said they are not ready to join issues with Terry G. "Even though we are aware that this is not the first time he will be involved in such scandal, we are not ready to join issues with him because we don't need controversy around Danny Young at the moment."


You 've known who is right or wrong now ,share your thoughts below!!!!
Posted by at

No comments:

Post a Comment

Subscribe to: Post Comments (Atom)