THE WIKI COMMUNITY

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Sunday 24 July 2011

People in the Limelight

People in the Limelight

Falling in love with the wrong person!!!

Posted: 24 Jul 2011 01:49 PM PDT


        You might have been in this situation at one point or the order in your life ,or you have friends having sleepless nights,worries over this issue .
    I often hear people say '' why do the wrong people get attracted so much to me,the way insects cling to sugar?…'' ..or why am I always so unlucky with relationships?.
Being in a relationship with the wrong person can be so exhausting,because only one person puts in his/his heart,time ,energy.There's nothing mutual and it is time wasting.The 'wrong person'will cheat on you,lie to You, use You,he/she hardly calls,texts…you do all the calling all the time, He/she can't boldly introduce to his/her friends or relatives. 

He is abusive,physically,verbally, emotionally ..even sexually.He/she treats you like '' trash'' publicly. Sometimes ,you often wonder what you are still doing in such relationship,you really want to come out of it,but you don't know how to come out of it.

     It takes a determined mind to come out of such relationship because it's like a trap.The''wrong person 'tends to be very manipulative and pretentious.They are very good story tellers.They hurt you so much,sleep with your friend, and come back with a swollen eyes, sober voice,crying and begging on their knee.They tell you stories like'' I cheated on you,because I had a bad childhood……My mother told me someone cast a spell on me,that's why I always hit you…….stories,stories,stories!!!!!!!!!,…They simply never take responsibility for their actions.

      Why do people often stay in these kind of relationship?.The answer is not far fetched. Most people can't just stand being alone,or they can't boldly say '' I am still single,am not in a relationship''.You just can't say NO to the advances from a guy or lady.[Inability to say ''NO'' is a terrible disease,its worst than HIV,because if you can't say no,people will trample on you in life.You will be a foot mat,make several mistakes and will always settle for less in life].It is because of this ''hunger' or ''rush' for a partner that makes people to grab anybody that wants to date them.You always want to brag in the midst of your friends that am dating Mr t,Miss K…even when you know the relationship is going nowhere,IF YOU LIE TO THE WHOLE WORLD,MUST YOU LIE TO YOURSELF!!!!!!!

       Also ,so many people find themselves in this situation because they look for the wrong qualities in a partner,so many people place so much priorities on good looks,power ,material things.I believe there's more to a person than a blue eyes,pink lips,cute smile,working in a big company,having a fleet of car.We should learn to differentiate what we see in movies and read in novels from reality…that's why they are called make believe. The most important quality to look out for in a partner is –Personality.Personality encompases a lot of what makes a person.Everyone will grow old physically,but a great personality will remain unchanged with age.
     In addition,some people continue dating the wrong person thinking they can change the person.No man has the ability to change another person ,only God can work in a man's life,heart and completely change the person.Though ,God can use a man,but you can take a horse to the stream,but you can't force it to drink water.So many people have wasted several years in a fruitless relationship thinking they can change their partners.

   Moreover,I believe the root of this problem is simply '' lack of self love''.IF you love yourself,know your worth and know that you deserve better.You wouldn't date or continue dating someone that tosses you around and treats you anyhow. Love makes the world go round, but it all begins with you. If you want others to treat you well, treat yourself well first. If you seek love from another, fall in love with yourself first.

    The truth is that as long as we live, before you meet that 'special one',you will always get advances or meet the wrong person.I feel we should try to reach a level of maturity such that we choose who we give our hearts to or fall in love with,stop using your hearts for experiments.By doing so,we will save ourselves a lot of heart breaks and headache.
It's beautiful and good to fall or be in love,but it's best to fall or be in love with the "right person".

    Readers, what do you think?.Share your opinions in your comments below.Let's discuss!!!!!!!!!!

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Bigbrother Amplified -Vimbai,Kim, Millicent evicted,remaining seven go to final stage

Posted: 24 Jul 2011 11:21 AM PDT


   Vimbai ,Kim and Millicent have been evicted due to having  lower votes while lomwe ,luclay,wendall and Hanni were saved.

     Nigeria's Karen and Vina,South africa's luclay , lomwe from malawi,Hanni from Ethiopia , wendall from Zimbabwe and sharon o from uganda are the seven remaining housemates that will go to the final stage of Bigbrother amplified . 

       Two winners will be announced during live eviction show on 31st July and walk away with $200,000 each


How Africa voted


Luclay: 5 country votes - Angola, Rest of Africa, Ghana, Botswana, South Africa 

Hanni: 2 country votes - Ethiopia, Nigeria (18.98 %)

Wendall: 2 country votes - Zimbabwe, Namibia (15.42%)

Lomwe: 2 country votes - Malawi, Mozambique (15.02%)

Millicent: 2 country votes - Uganda, Kenya (9.38%)

Kim: 1 country vote - Zambia

Vimbai: 1 country vote - Tanzania.

Weekly Topten movies at the Box office -Captain America:The first Avenger tops

Posted: 24 Jul 2011 11:18 AM PDT


   Captain America:The first Avenger(See trailer here) is the most seen movie over the weekend taking in $65 million moving last week chart topper harry porter and the deathly hallows to the second spot. See the full list below.


TWLWTitle (click to view)StudioWeekend Gross% ChangeTheater Count /ChangeAverageTotal GrossBudget*Week #
1NCaptain America: The First AvengerPar.$65,827,000-3,715-$17,719$65,827,000$1401
21Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows Part 2WB$48,065,000-71.6%4,375-$10,986$274,182,000-2
3NFriends with BenefitsSGem$18,500,000-2,926-$6,323$18,500,000$351
42Transformers: Dark of the MoonP/DW$12,000,000-43.7%3,375-542$3,556$325,789,000$1954
53Horrible BossesWB (NL)$11,720,000-34.1%3,104-30$3,776$82,402,000$353
64ZookeeperSony$8,700,000-29.4%3,215-267$2,706$59,204,000$803
75Cars 2BV$5,726,000-31.9%2,668-581$2,146$176,445,000$2005
86Winnie the PoohBV$5,141,000-34.6%2,405-$2,138$17,573,000$302
97Bad TeacherSony$2,600,000-49.5%2,034-625$1,278$94,355,000$205
1010Midnight in ParisSPC$1,899,000+1.2%621-85$3,058$44,878,000$3010

Linda Christian, the first Bond girl dies at 87

Posted: 24 Jul 2011 06:27 AM PDT

Linda christian and tyrone power

     Linda christsian, the Hollywood starlet of the 1940s who married heartthrob Tyrone power and went on to become the first Bond girl, has died.
       
 Her daughter, Romina Power, says Christian died Friday in Palm Desert after battling colon cancer. She was 87.Born in Mexico, Christian pursued an acting career in Los Angeles and eventually signed a contract with MGM. 
        She made her film debut alongside Danny Kaye in the 1944 musical comedy Up In Arms.A year after appearing in 1948's Tarzan and the Mermaids, Christian married Power, one of Hollywood's most popular leading men. They divorced in 1956.Christian's famous curves led Life magazine to nickname her the "anatomic bomb."In 1954 she starred as James Bond's love interest in the television adaptation of the novel Casino Royale.
She is survived by Romina Power, her sister Taryn power and eight grandchildren.
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