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- Marc Anthony Officially Files For Divorce From Jennifer Lopez
- M.I Releases Illegal Music 2 Mixtape
- Fomer HeavyWeight Champion Mike Tyson's Life In Pictures
- Indecent Dressing By Stella Damasus
- Mandela's 94th Birthday To Break Guiness World Records With 20 Million People Singing
- Actress Adaora Ukoh Launches Clothing Line For Pluz-Sized Women
| Marc Anthony Officially Files For Divorce From Jennifer Lopez Posted: 11 Apr 2012 11:23 PM PDT  Marc Anthony has made his breakup from pop star Jennifer Lopez official by filing for divorce months after the superstar couple announced their separation. The Latin crooner filed his petition Monday in Los Angeles. He cited irreconcilable differences but did not put additional details of the split, including the date he and Lopez separated, in the filing. The former couple announced they were ending their marriage in July 2011 after seven years. They have twin children together, and Anthony is seeking joint custody.The pair had been a high-profile couple and maintained a business relationship even after their announcement, appearing in the reality television series "Q'Viva!" and promoting it together. Anthony's marriage to Lopez was his second. She had been married twice before the couple got married in June 2004.  | ||||||||||
| M.I Releases Illegal Music 2 Mixtape Posted: 11 Apr 2012 11:01 PM PDT  Rapper Jude MI Abaga has released his highly anticipated Mixtape Illegal Music 2. IM2 features manyup and coming artists like pryse,shaydee,pope,Yungsix,Rubyand many more .The release party was held last night at Industry Night ,oriental hotel ,lekki,lagos. LISTEN AND DOWNLOAD FULL MIXTAPE HERE  | ||||||||||
| Fomer HeavyWeight Champion Mike Tyson's Life In Pictures Posted: 11 Apr 2012 11:53 AM PDT  Mike tyson poses (1988) Former heavyweight champion Mike Tyson is set to make his Las Vegas stage debut on April 13. The one-man show, "Mike Tyson: The Undisputed Truth," is being billed as a "live autobiography". Many top hollywood celebrities have been confirmed to be in attendance , The 45-year-old has lived a truly colorful life,Check out his life in pictures. Mike Tyson and wife actress robin givens 
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        Lennox lewis knocks tyson during the seventh round (2002)  Tyson and his son Miguel during press conference in mississipi(2003)   Kevin Mcbride knocks tyson down in the sixth round(2005)  Tyson makes a court appearance in Arizona(2007)  Mike tyson and his pigeons (2011)   Tyson hugs bradley cooper at the hangover II premiere in L.A (2011)  Inductees Sylvester Stallone and Mike Tyson during an induction ceremony at the Boxing Hall of Fame in N.Y (2011)  | ||||||||||
| Indecent Dressing By Stella Damasus Posted: 11 Apr 2012 06:51 AM PDT  I was at a popular shopping mall with my kids a while ago buying pizza. My children decided to go into the department store so they could see the latest "wii" game if any. As I was about to join them, someone tapped my shoulder and said please Madam Stella, forgive me for being so rude I would like to talk to you and it's urgent. I said okay, "no problem, what can I do for you?" She asked if we could go to a quiet corner so we could talk better? I said "okay, as long as it's not far from where I could keep an eye on my kids." So we walked in and she brought out a magazine, flipped through and pointed at a lady that was almost nude, all in the name of fashion. She said she wanted to talk to me because she knew that I was familiar with the person in the magazine. I already knew where she was going and started laughing. She got offended and wondered why I found it funny. She then started to raise her voice, saying that those of us who are role models are supposed to be setting good examples, which was very true, and that she has seen over five pictures of me at different events and I'm always properly dressed and according to her "covered up", which was also true. I agreed with her and told her I was laughing because I had seen that particular magazine and already had a conversation about it with my sisters and a few of my good friends. One of my friends actually said, "the beautiful ones are always properly and decently dressed but the ugly, insecure, unintelligent and shapeless ones are the ones who flaunt those worn out, stretch marked, oversized, body parts that should be left covered". That was actually the major reason I laughed and by the time I finished, the woman was laughing harder than I was. We then sat by the food court and started chatting. Her worries were very justified because she had a sixteen-year-old daughter who would do anything to become an actress and singer, she has been attending vocal classes, just to show how serious she was. Her mum was rightfully worried because her role models are: Guess who? Those same ladies in the entertainment world who give off wrong signals. It's a free world, we all know that, and people have freedom of expression; we don't have the right to judge or criticise people; one man's meat is another man's poison; this is the 21st century; you must belong so that you can be a happening babe; and so on and so forth. True, but at whose expense? I love Asa's song titled, Fire on the mountain, especially the part where she sang: Who's responsible for what we teach our children? Is it the internet or the stars on television? Why, oh why. It's one of my favourite songs, so forgive me if I use it all the time. We forget that regardless of civilization, exposure and status, we are still first of all Africans with values, culture etc. Believe it or not, these are the things that amaze the western world, because they don't have that. They want to know the way we live, how we think, the way we dress, the way we talk, our tradition and culture, the peculiarity of our film-making. They have turned African tradition and culture into major courses in foreign universities, it remains a mystery to them. While these are happening, we are busy trying to lose all that, just to be like them at all costs. Most of the copycats have never even seen the inside of the international airport. The information they get of the Western world is basically from television and magazines. This is really sad, because they think that when you are almost nude, every man will want to get along with you, right? WRONG! You enjoy all the attention yes but try to tell him to introduce you to his family, even as just a friend, then watch out for his reaction. Trust me, the opposite sex will nearly kill his sister or his wife if they dress like that, but they will let you do it because to them you are just a piece of meat. My mother always used to tell me: "Dress the way you want to be addressed". I went to one of the cinema houses sometime last year and saw four girls in their school uniforms, carrying knapsacks. They called out my name in excitement and ran to me to sign autographs, which I gladly did. They left and I saw an old friend of mine who started chatting with me. In less than 10 minutes, the same schoolgirls came out of the restroom and when I saw what they were wearing, my jaw dropped and my eyes bulged out in horror. They were wearing serious hot micro daisy duke shorts with halter neck half tops. I couldn't handle it, and it just occurred to me that they packed extra clothes in their bags, went to school and came straight from school to the cinema. My first question to my friend was: Is there a dress code that I don't know about for cinema now or is something wrong somewhere? People don't go into cold cinema halls half naked, so they were obviously not there to watch a movie, and there was certainly no party there. When young girls dress like that, what do you think they are trying to achieve if not attention? You know that they will definitely not get the right kind of attention. My heart started beating fast and I said a quick prayer asking God to give me the wisdom to train my kids the way my mum trained us. These girls could not have been more than 14 and that is scary. We need to tell ourselves the truth. I'm going to take time out to explain some of the reasons this happens and how we could make it better. We should not condemn ladies who dress like that because some of them are going through psychological issues, living in self-denial and have lost every ounce of confidence and self-esteem to the point where they are screaming "Attention"! They just want to be noticed. Some of the reasons that I have discovered are: - Upbringing: This mostly is caused by the way the child is raised and what she is exposed to at an early age. As we know, the biggest influence on kids is television. Most parents don't bother to control what their kids are watching and learning. For instance, some music videos are not appropriate for children because it has become a nude affair, and since it is played in the minds of these kids, they begin to think it is normal and acceptable especially when no adult is preventing them from watching and telling them it is not right. Parents and older siblings also have to be careful with their own dressing because kids tend to emulate the older ones. Another thing that worries me is the fact that some mothers are actually the ones who buy these clothes for their young daughters. They are the ones that even tell them the names like, daisy dukes, tank tops, halters, strapless, British cores, hipster, low waist jeans that shows the crack of the butt, balloon micro and a host of others. Exposure: A lot of parents pride themselves on the fact that they can afford the best things in life for their kids, which is very good. But they have to be careful what they expose their kids to at an early age. For instance, some parents need to realise that at a certain age there are some places that their young daughters should not go, and there are some friends they cannot be extremely close to. This might sound harsh but trust me, the saying, "show me your friends and I will tell you who you are", is very strong. My daughter was invited to the shopping mall by her classmate whom she said was also a friend and I insisted that the child minder and my second daughter must accompany her. Hours later, when they came back it was my younger daughter that told me that the girl who invited them was wearing the kind of shorts I said they cannot wear. I called the minder so she could explain and she said the girl was wearing hot pants and was pointing at a bottle in the alcohol stand, saying her dad allowed her to drink that adult drink and it was very nice. Of course, my older daughter came to me and said, "Mum her shorts had Hanna Montana designs on them and they were really nice". When I got up and gave my daughter "the look" (she understands that look very well), nobody told her to end her statement with "(but then again it was just too short and I didn't like that)". I had to refuse any more gatherings or meetings between my kids and the girl in question because I could only imagine what a little girl her age would already have been exposed to. Kids learn faster from their peers and television. This brings me to the next one. Peer Pressure: This is the most common one because young girls who are not properly grounded at home can be very gullible. They want to belong, they don't want to be laughed at or ignored; so once they see other girls doing it, getting away with it and attracting the opposite sex, they believe it's the way forward. I have seen young girls who would rather starve, or not pay for exams or even medicals, than miss out on the newest skimpy skirt or cleavage showing tops, just to feel accepted by others who are neck deep in it. If a young girl does not follow this trend, they are called "old fashioned", "old school", "mama Africa", "sister mary", "ITK", "booky" and so on. No young girl wants her peers to call her that, so automatically they would conform. Psychological: There are various psychological reasons that push young girls into this mode. A lot of young girls cannot handle pressure. It breaks them down. Most of them have parents that are not their friends and therefore cannot share their thoughts and concerns. You find that most of them either bottle these things up and then explode one day and do the extreme; or they avoid the psychological trauma by following others so they are not different. Some young girls have gone through a lot at a tender age which has really disturbed them psychologically. Some have low self esteem, some feel they are not appreciated because they are not as pretty as their sisters or friends; others feel because their parents insult them with words like, "you good for nothing girl", "you are useless in this house." etc. The think the only thing they are good for is using their bodies to attract men to make money so they can be useful. Some actually have said that they wear crazy and revealing clothes to make up for other areas of their bodies that are not so nice e.g. face. You would be surprised that when you listen to most of these young girls talk about reasons behind what they do; instead of judging or insulting them you would be compelled to help them because most of them are misguided and some have been physically and mentally abused. So this for them is their way of rebelling and punishing their folks. We need to find a way of showing them that we are not judging them but want to help. They have to be taught that "people protect what they love, cherish and respect. So if you treat your body like it's an object or a tool to get something by exposing it and showing the whole world things that should be covered, then it means that you don't love, cherish and respect your body". It is also our responsibility as celebrities, role models, house hold names, etc. to set good examples and show the younger generation that decency is very important. We tend to forget that we are being watched, especially by these young girls who want to be like us. They copy whatever we do, how we walk, talk, dress, behave and even our expressions. We have to be careful with the way we do things that influence the impressionable minds. These young girls will listen to their favourite stars and emulate them more than their own mothers or sisters. A lot of people may hate me or call me names because of this article but like I always say, these are my thoughts and my opinion. I have a responsibility and that is to speak the truth that I know. Let us try to mentor these girls even when it seems they are not interested. Quote: Dress the way you want to be addressed.  | ||||||||||
| Mandela's 94th Birthday To Break Guiness World Records With 20 Million People Singing Posted: 11 Apr 2012 06:22 AM PDT  Nelson madela A planned attempt to break a world record, with over 20 million people singing "happy birthday" to former president Nelson Mandela, was announced on Tuesday. "This year we hope to break the Guinness Book of World Records with more than 20 million South Africans singing," Basic Education Minister Angie Motshekga and Lead SA said in a statement."We want to encourage the nation to join in." Last year the department and the civic participation group arranged for millions of school children to sing to Mandela at 8am on his birthday.Lead SA spokesman Yusuf Abramjee said he was confident that the public would show their love and affection for Mandela by participating in singing to him on his 94th birthday on July 18. "In addition to the millions of school children, we want people in offices, in factories and those out on the streets to join in..." The SHOUT Foundation, a movement aimed at reducing crime, committed 94 singers to record the song for distribution in the run-up to Mandela's birthday.  | ||||||||||
| Actress Adaora Ukoh Launches Clothing Line For Pluz-Sized Women Posted: 11 Apr 2012 02:25 AM PDT  Adaora Ukoh ,ibru sisters and other friends The collections include Red carpet Diva,The party rider,Plumb bohemian chick,The office lady classic casual and many more. ADAORA Couture will be launched April 29,2012 ,two days after Adaora's birthday .
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