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Thursday 7 October 2010

How To Realize A Healthy Dating Relationship

By Dicky Rejaka

It is what every person aspires to have, a healthy dating relationship. It is much sought after by many dating couples. It is their dream undertakes a model of a relationship. Unfortunately, it is so elusive to the extent that many relationships have turned into casual affairs that lack enough commitment. A healthy dating relationship relies mostly on the thought of giving.

Be a person who is always willing to give instead of expecting to be given. Do not need limitations in giving, give out generously and your rewards will be abundant. Giving however is not material but learning to love your partner and express it in every possible means and ways. Even the holy book says that if you give handsomely you will end up rewarded in equal measure. A relationship that is founded on love is like a house built on a rock, it can weather any storm.

People in a healthy relationship can derive fulfillment and contentment from it. A person's emotional and physical needs to be met by the relationship. The relationship becomes like a spring where your thirst can be quenched. When a relationship is healthy you will feel it. You feel you are so deep into your partner that you live for this relationship. You feel things can never be the same again if it was curtailed. You live for it, it's everything. It forms your dreams throughout the night and you day dream about it throughout the day. These types of manifestations of a deep fulfillment; contentment that envelopes your heart with such a good feeling making you realize you have a healthy relationship.

A relationship is not always a bed of roses as many people tend to believe. It is sometimes rocked by infighting and division. We all have been human beings and we all have been deficient in our own small ways. We will likely disagree in somehow at some point. Such differences are an indicator of good health in a relationship. Otherwise if everything was so smooth, you would become worn out with monotony. You might actually lack something to talk about. Sometimes you feel closer to your partner after a quarrel! A healthy dating relationship should overcome these differences by being accommodation to them. Accommodate your partner's shortcomings. We're not perfect these days. All people are riddled with quite a few weaknesses that haunt us everywhere even right inside a relationship.

A healthy dating relationship is built on many pillars. But so that you can streamline this pillars to be able to support one entity, their need to be communication. It's the engine oil of a healthy dating relationship. Communication in a relationship implies that you don't hide and keep feelings to yourself, whether positive or negative. Talk with your partner on all about those feelings about certain issues in the relationship. Do not play your cards under the table. Whenever they the relationship unhealthy. Share your hopes, dreams and desires and have a capacity for patience, understanding and tolerance.

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